Why love never last?

I was reading my old blog post a couple of days before and I started to have some thoughts about all the stuffs I wrote last year especially when I was being very emotional (refer especially to this particular post "Festive season = good news =love in the air???").

A lot of things have changed in the couple of months that had passed since I wrote that article. What is more irony is that most of the couples that I have mentioned in the post had separated and became single again. What shocked me the most is that even friends that had been together for quite some years had broken up too...

This makes me actually wonder about a lot of things in life. I have been given comments by some friends around me saying that I am been too idealistic in my thinking with regards to love relationship between couples. Well, I have to admit that they were right sometime, coz in a relationship it depend on both hands to clap. It would have never work out if one of the party does not want to be involve in it. Well, when more than one person is involved in anything, the situation become complicated coz human "heart" is the hardest thing to predict. It always changes from time to time.

Despite all the comments from my friends, being a typical sagi ( pretty much that is my excuse :p)I still can't help but to think why love never last even when it happened on friends that you have least expected. It take two person to get together but it takes one to destroy the relationship.

I often wonder that if love can be visualize and quantify like any other things in a scientific way would things still happened the way they did? Well, obviously this question could not be answered since it would never happened. Perhaps, as I am who I am, despite knowing the limitations and restrictions in life, I would still constantly challenge the impossible ( in term of ideology and perspective ) and question those surrounding me. This is not because that I don't know the obvious answer but that sometime there is more to a certain thing then the obvious answer. I understand that this would be a life long debate, however I do hoped that it would be a interesting one.

Don't be surprise that as you are reading this article, you realize that it had not been structure well enough because this is the true (real time) thoughts that are going through my brains now. My brain is just very impromptu and spontaneous :p as usual to whoever that really know me.

I guess I would still be stuck with this question for a fair bit of time from now, so I should continue with my deep thoughts and exit from my blog... hehe...